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Name: nancy pennell Comments: that was beautiful..i cried but that is ok..loved seeing his face again Name: Rey & Kevin Location: Staten Island, Ndew York Comments: Kevin and I met Julie through her sister in law Myra. Seeing this memorial brought tears to my eyes. Im sorry he died the way he did but, seeing this memorial if Christopher makes me sad we did not meet him in life but, I we will meet in heaven some day. Rest in Peace Comments: missing you today 8/22/11 Name: Angie.Esparza Location: Duncanville.TX Comments: ''IN MEMORY''....'Cpl. Christopher W. Belchik U.S.M.C. And a ''BIG OOORRRAAAH Name: Candy & Scott Location: Brighton, IL Comments: Thank you Chris for your sacrafices for our freedom. Name: Jenn Trent Location: Jacksonville NC Comments: My husband had the honor to sever with Chris back in 2004. He was there the day that Chris died. He talks of him often and cry over him. I myself never got the pleasure to meet your son. I am honored to know him through memorys The good and the bad. May God bless him and your family. Thank you Chris For everything you did for this country. R.I.P GONE BUT NEVER FORGOTEN!! Name: Carol Comments: I start to write and then I delete to start over again, and again. Chris is special to me. I hope he never stops sending me his messages. Name: Paula Location: NJ Comments: Thank you so much for your family's sacrifice..My son is an active marine stationed far from home in California...due for his 1st deployment in February and it means so musch to have your prayers for him..I only hope I can be as strong throughthat time as you have been...God Bless you and I am so sorry for the loss of your son... Name: Lee Location: California Comments: Lynn, my prayers and thoughts are with you and yours today..... I know there is nothing we can do to stop the feelings of loss... but know there is a gratitude I cannot express to Chris and your family for their sacrifice..... much much love.... Name: Peter Maloney Location: Kabul, Afghanistan Comments: Not forgotten. Semper fi buddy. Name: S. G. Lewis Location: Houston, TX Comments: If it's of ANY consolation, your loss was NOT in vain. Look out your door ... see th' cars going by? Answer your phone; It's a friend ... wanting you to go to shopping. During th' conversation, you discuss politics, religion, unemployment, etc. . Why is this important? Because it's what YOUR SON P A I D for! Name: Anne Willinger Location: Michigan Comments: I just watched the video tribute to your son. Absolutely God Bless you and your family. Name: Sue Trent Location: Chesapeake, Va Comments: Lynn, I finally watched the tribute and it is beautiful. I got to Name: Karin Willett Location: West Springfield Comments: Julie: Karin Name: Lucas Lytle Location: Spring, Tx Comments: I still miss you Chris. A great leader and a great friend. Name: andrew john Location: alaska Comments: happy easter. my name is andrew john and i went to boot camp with chris from jan 16th to april 13th 2001 (easter weekend of that year). when we were in boot camp, he stood up for me, knowing that english was not my first language (i didn't know this at the time, but my thought process took a bit longer than most, seeing that i had to think about what was said, translate into my language to myself, and reply in english.) it was almost three years since we seen each other. it was on a sunday in feburuay of 2004 at a barbar shop in jacksonville, NC, i just got my hair cut and i was walking out the door when a familiar face was walking in. we proceeded pass each other, and after about four steps i stopped and did an about-face. little that i knew, he did the same damn thing! as i looked at him i said "belchik!,...", in turn he said "fucking john! i thought i'd never see you again! im surprised yo' lil' eskimo butt haven't melted in all this hot weather for an eskimo!" we both burst out laughing, had a great several minutes catching up on old times. turned out we both were heading out around the same time. he to iraq, and i, to afghanistan, to be coming back around the same time frame. and primsed one another that we would come and meet each other's family. i remember the night i got back from afghanistan, vividly. as i got off the bus the very first thing i did was lay down and smell american soil. all by my self, none of my faimly couldn't make it cause they don't make enough money to fly down. (i think that the tradtional councel of the village didn't understand the magnatude of what i just when thru, because i'm sure they could have donated all costs to my parents and grandparents. by the way, i was raised by my grandparents.), but anyway, i was alone. and that was the first time i felt a different kind of fear. so i started calling old buddies. i called another marine that we went to boot camp with, his last name was mudd. while mudd and i where talking, i knew he had belchik's number, so i asked about him. in that moment that he said nothing, i told him that i was going to kill him and that he better say something. in that moment of silence, fearing the worst, i knew before he answered. its been almost six years, and with all due respect, i would like to fullfill my promise and come meet his family. i want all you all to know that where ever my home is, any and all of you are welcome without reserve! Name: Danielle Sanders Location: Saint Louis , MO Comments: Dear Reader , When I was running errands with the other day , I saw a picture of your son along with a bumper sticker reading some gave all on the back of a red pick up truck . I also saw the Marine sticker and me being a family member to a Marine , I decided to give you my support for your loss via an email . I haven ' t , ever , had to endure the hardship that you are going through but I am very sorry for your loss . Please remember , that your son died a hero in so many peoples' eyes . Sincerely , A Proud Marine Sister Name: robert gravlin Location: spanish lake ,mo Comments: Please accept my condolences your son was a hero fighting for our country. Fortunately we still have brave citizens willing to go into the service. I know at this time it is very sad for you and I will remember you in my prayers. Name: Steven Mathis, MSG, ILANG Location: Shiloh, IL Comments: I'm sorry to say that I never knew Chris. He sounds like a person that I would've been honored to have as a friend and brother warrior. I would like to pass along my deepest condolences to his wife and family. My wife and I will keep you all in our prayers. God bless! Name: John Klomps Location: Aviston, IL Comments: I would like to take this opportunity to say thank you. I know it is difficult to lose a loved one, but please know that your sacrifice will not be forgotten. Be strong. God bless. And again, thank you! John Klomps Name: Rev. Charles R, Stancil, Sr. USArny Ret. Location: Belleville, IL 62221 Comments: Even though Cpl. Belchik is not physically with us...his memory lives on as a testiment to the true spirit of our American Forces. My deepest sympathy and prayers go out to your family. Always remember that his death "was not and is not" in vain. God Bless you, Rev. Charles R. Stancil, Sr. Name: Will Holliday Location: St. Loius, Mo. Comments: As a former Marine and a Vietnam veteran, I offer my condolences for your loss. God Bless and Semper Fi! Name: Judy Boyd Location: Godfrey, IL Comments: God bless you and God bless your son Chris. He will never, ever be forgotten !! Name: Ms. Heinemann's 7th grade class Location: Hazelwood North Middle School Comments: Dear Belchik Family, We appreciate Christopher's service to our country and his fighting for our freedom. His dedication is honored today on Veteran's day as well as always! Thank you, Christopher!! Ms. Heinemann's Class Name: LCPL. Tyler M. Heisey Location: 29 Palms Ca. Comments: Dear Mrs. and Mr. Belchik, My name is Tyler Heisey and for the past six months I have known your nephew PFC. Hazelwonder, Nick and I would like to first give you my condolences for your terrible loss. Nick and I have been together as brothers in arms for months now in the same unit and everything and after listening to him talk with great passion about his Uncle that told me that I had to watch the tribute to him. From the tribute and the other comments I have read, Cpl. Belchik must have been a great man and even greater Marine and must have been an honor and privilege to be with him. After seeing how great of a Marine Nick is and the ways he talks about your son, I know that through Nick and his actions that your son and nephew are both great individuals. I would like to say that it is an honor to know your nephew and even more blessed to know someone who knew a true gungho devil dog. I mourn for your loss and hope that the time that has passed may have helped the pain subside at least to an easier level. When I head to Grafton in the future I would like to stop by the Belchik house to meet the parents of a great warrior, man, and child of god. God Bless and Semper Fi, Name: nick Location: 29 palms california marine base Comments: Hey guys its me nick cathys son marys nephew well I I've been a marine for about a year now and I leave for afghanistan in september and every once in a while I look at the tribute and every time it gets my motivation going and I know he would be proud. I look at the tribute and its for marines like him and my brothers here why I do what I do.email me some time it would be great to hear from you. Name: Louise Kidder Location: South Hadley, MA Comments: Dear Julie and family, From what I have learned of Chris from Julie and in watching the news tribute I believe he must have indeed been a very beautiful man. One who loved his wife and family as fiercely as he fought for his country. May God bless you all each day with strength, courage and love to be able to bear this burden of grief, and the belief in God that one day you will all be united once again in the eternal grace of heaven. With deepest sympathy, Louise Name: Denise McWhorter Location: Greenfield, IL Comments: I knew Chris a very long time ago. We were very good friends in high school. I just found out today about his passing. I feel so priviledged to have known him. Chris was such a charismatic person. You couldn't help but love him! My sincerest condolences to his family and wife. Comments: I LOVE YOU AND THINK ABOUT YOU EVERYDAY I MISS YOU Name: Blaine Schlagetter Location: Infantry Training Battalion Comments: I think of Chris often. I was his Platoon Sergeant in Echo Co 2/2 when we deployed on the 24th MEU and ended up in Iraq. Chris was my spades partner and we constantly played. Enjoying good times with the other Marines in the platoon, beating most of them. Even though we were different generations of Marines we were the same generation growing up. Actually he was a year older than me. I respected that and we became good friends. We'd stop each other at Camp Fallujah or FOB St Michael and shoot the breeze. I'm not a crier, but I remember the day I saw his name on the report and hearing someone tell me and I had a hard time stopping the tears. Chris is one of the best guys I know and I miss him. I know he's in a better place doing his part to help keep us all safe. Chris, you'll never be forgotten, brother. Name: Tamra Location: Kansas City, MO Comments: Hello, I did not know your son, but my best friend fought with him in Iraq. Rick was friends with him & (by my understanding) was there at the time if the attack. Rick mentions Chris's name alot when he goes through low periods. Chris's death really shook Rick up & he even now struggles with what he calls "survivor's remorse". I am sorry for your loss, you have put together alot of wonderful memories in this tribute. Please pray for Rick Burris. T Name: Caleb Johnson Location: Gaithersburg, MD Comments: I was in Chris's platoon for 2 years, and spent a lot of that time in the same squad. Chris was one of the best Marines, and best people I've ever met. He had more heart and more integrity than 10 other Marines put together, and it was obvious that he had this well before the Marines was ever lucky enough to have him. I've waited several years to post a comment about Chris because I knew nothing I could say would begin to do him justice and thought something would eventually come to mind, but it hasn't. The things I remember most about Chris was how often he'd talk about Mary, and that damn parrot joke he must have told a thousand times but never stopped being funny. Name: Linda Kelley Location: Hull, MA Comments: My deepest sympathy to all of the Belchik family. I met Julie this weekend in Westerly RI on vacation. I commented on her Marines sweatshirt she had been wearing and she had told me the story of her brother and gave me this website. My heart ached for her as she spoke so highly of her younger brother. What a great tribute to Chris. I am a mother of an Army Soldier that has seen two tours in Iraq and two in Afganistan. Any branch of service is family. It can happen to any father, husband, son, brother, cousin, etc. I am so sorry for your loss and I pray everyday that our troups return home safely. God Bless Linda Name: Carrie Location: Massachusetts Comments: I feel as if I've known Christopher for quite awhile and yet I've never actually met this man. He was a son,a husband and very special brother. The reason I emphasize brother is because one of my closest friends is his wonderful sister Julie. Since I've met her, I've listened closely as she told me about Christopher and what a wonderful person he was, the hurdles he overcame, the pride he had as a Marine, and the special bond he had with his friends and family. I now think of Christopher whenever I hear the words pride, honor, freedom and sacrifice. So, even though I've never met this man, I think of him, his family, and his wonderful sister and what they've had to endure. Name: naeman hardman Location: texas Comments: My name is naeman hardman and I served with chris in the marines. I first met him in boot camp and when we got to the fleet we were in the same platoon and for a while the same fire team. My heart was deeply saddened the night Chris was killed and even to this day it still is. not a day goes by that I don't think of Chris and all of jokes and the funny stories he would tell just to keep our minds off of what ever we were going through. He would do anything even give the shirt off his back to help someone and in the end he gave his life. Chris was more than a friend he was a fellow marine and a brother and his loss is still felt. No words can ease your loss but I will give you my prayers, I am privileged to have known and been friends with a man of Chris's caliber. God bless you and comfort you. sincerely, Name: Geri Cloutier Location: Massachusetts Comments: Hi Lynn, I just wanted you to know I think of you often and Christopher daily. He will never be forgotten. Sincerely, Geri Name: Mary Ellen Callahan Location: Hanson, Massachusetts Comments: To Chris' Family: Please know that Chris will never be forgotten. He is in the hearts of many and his sacrifice has been remembered! My thoughts, prayers and love go out to all of you, and here is hoping for a more peaceful New Year and years to come. Love, Mary Ellen Callahan Ssgt. Bill Callahan KIA 4-27-07 Name: SANDRA GONZALEZ Location: HUNTINGTON BEACH, CA Comments: Dear Belchik Family: We are indebted to Cpl. Christopher W. Belchick for our FREEDOM! John 15:13, "Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends." 2 Tim. 4:7, "I have fought a good fight, I have finished my course, I have kept the faith." Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family! We appreciate and are grateful for the sacrifices you and your son - our HERO - have made. If my family can do anything for you, please do NOT hesitate to ask. God Bless you all. Home of the Free, because of the BRAVE! The Gonzalez Family of Huntington Beach, CA ASWL's - West Coast Helper Name: Constance Finnegan Location: Hampden Ma Comments: Wear his dog-tag with a loving heart. I didn't want to pry but I wanted to listen when you spoke of your brother and the way you found his dog-tag shoelaced to his boot; it was moving to see your expressions when you spoke of him! A Patient at the Breast Center Name: amanda belchik Location: alton/godfrey Comments: i googled my uncles name and this site came up. I can' believe it's been 3 years since he's been gone. It feels like just yesterday. at school when they have the jr. rotc in their uniforms i think about him. he is my hero..and i want to live to meet the standards he had for me, because those are the only ones that matter. For me, to have so much love for one person then loose them, i feel like apart of me is dead. i don't think that feeling will ever go away, and i'm not sure i want it to. I still have the music box he sent to me. sometimes i just listen to it at night until i fall asleep from crying. I just wanted to say thank you to everyone who commented on this, and thank you for all the prays, it means alot to me and my family. Everyone has their days when they miss him so much they just can't handle it...i have my months.. but i have gotten a lot closer to my family, espically my grandma. But once again..thank you. With Love, Amanda. Name: Linda Lewin-Natalizia Location: RI Comments: Jim & Lynn I can not begin to say how much sorrow is in my heart for you both and your family. What a beautiful tribute to a beautiful person. It has touch my heart more than words can say. As a mother of 2 soldiers serving in Iraq,( one home now) I know the pain and fear, but I can't imagin what you are all going through with the loss of your son. My thoughts and prayers are with you always. Our boys may not have been in the same service, but we have a connection that makes us a family, even if we don't know each other. May God bless you all and keep you in his loving arms. Please keep intouch and I look forward to talking to you again soon! Love Linda Name: Snookie Location: Alton Comments: Dear Aunt Lynn, It's Saturday, June 23, and it is 8:30pm. I just wanted to let you know that I really enjoyed looking at Chris's website. I know that this Monday is his birthday, and Michelle told me that you are going to have a balloon release. I asked her to let me know what time you will be doing it so I can join you, ok? HOPE TO SEE YOU SOON!!! Name: Christine Pacheco Location: Hayward, CA Comments: My deepest most heartfelt condolences you everyone. This story touched me personlly, because I don't even know you, but we are family. Before I became Chris Pacheco 13 years ago, my name was Chris Belchik for 27 years. My father is Mike Belchik, Steve's nephew. Anyway, I don't know anyone personally who has died in Iraq, but am moved beyond words to see how devastating it is for everyone when it hits home. I obviously feel a bond to your Chris Belchik, being one myself. Love to you all. Chris(tine) Belchik Name: nick mouser Location: alton Comments: Chris was my uncle and I loved him very much I am mary's nephew and now that i'm going to be 18 i am going to the marines and i know he will be there to guide me through it all he was atrue hero...I still pray for you guys everyday that you will find peace. Name: Mike Belchik Location: Pleasanton, CA Comments: Just found this while looking for something else. What a beautiful tribute. Makes me proud to belong to the family. Name: Peggy Theim Location: Texas Comments: We have a son-in-law who just finished his third tour in Iraq. My prayers and thoughts go out to you, your family and your son's friends. God Bless. Name: Dee Location: Harrisburg, PA Comments: It will be Easter in 2 days. I feel compelled to post some words of gratitude, but struggle for the correct words that would express my appreciation adequately, but know that my son serves in the Corps. May your family and friends surround you with love and pleasant memories of your Christopher this Easter. Name: John Scarpaci Location: Gloucester MA Comments: God has blessed your son, Your loss is deep I have a grandson going to Iraq in a month or so. I find myself deep with worry, I know he is and has been trained with the best of men. However I still sit up and worry it's something we at home do. I know you know this, but it makes me feel better. I don't know who you all are, but I'm a former Marin who did his time in Viet Nam. I was looking at the site and I wish to thank your son in our house he is a hero, and we pray for all who are in the military. He gave it all to keep our way of life free and secure form the ones who wish to bring us harm. My prays are also with you and will be so forever. I don't want to boar you so I'll be going. For you son I say Sember Fi he's with the best of men sitting with men Like Chestie Puller, Lew Diamond, Iron Mike and my Dad May God bless all of you. Sincerly Name: Laurie Almeter Location: Alton Comments: Lynn and Family, I just watched the Tribute to Chris and as a mom my heart aches for you. Trust in God and know that you will find strength. Love you Laurie ---Michelle's friend. I could say ten million more thing that you have probably heard over and over but I will say a prayer for all of you. Name: Nancy Nicholas Location: Tremonton, UT Comments: What a beautiful tribute to Chris and your family. I offer my sympathy and my heartfelt thanks to you. I hope time has eased your pain somewhat but has made your wonderful memories of Chris even more vivid. May God bless and strengthen you each day. Nancy Nicholas Name: Judy Best, VPMOM Location: North Little Rock, AR Comments: May God bless your family with His richest blessings, since your angel is blessing Him in Heaven even now! Name: Pam Henderson Location: Springfield, Ma Comments: To Family and Friends of Chris, I send you my prayers and loving hope that your days and life turn from gut wrenching pain to the soft saddness of memories, the smiles of days remembered, and the loving sigh of gladness that Chris was in your life and the "knowing" he is with you even now and always will be. Love and light to you all, Pam Name: Donna Corrigan Location: Hinsdale Illinois Comments: What a wonderful young man. Along with my sympathy, I send my thanks. Our county is very fortunate to have such exceptional soldiers who care so very much; may it not ever be forgotten. Name: Karen Jenkins Location: Navesink, NJ Comments: May God bless and comfort you always on the passing of your Angel Christopher. SEMPER FI are the golden words of the world's best branch of the Armed Forces. May He hold you in his hands and comfort you and may Chris send you messages of love and comfort. Name: Jimmie Location: Nebraska Comments: God Bless you.... Name: Andy Banker Location: Fox 2 Comments: I was deleting some old e-mail -- there was one from Brian -- so I went back to the web site and watched everything. One thing I've kept thinking since meeting you all is that I wish I could have known him. Watching the tributes and knowing you, I feel like do know him a little bit. Just wanted you to know we still think of him and all of you often -- and as it says in the tribute -- we will NEVER forget. ab Name: M. Denis Location: Portland, Oregon Comments: I am so sorry for your loss. This is such a beautiful tribute to your son. My deepest sympathy to all the Belchik family. Name: Jan, PMM of Lcpl Ryan Location: Michigan Comments: Dear family of Cpl Christopher, I just watched your magnificent commemoration of your brave hero. My heart is heavy, from the depths for your loss that I'm sure is unbearable. Your son will always be remembered as a great American Hero and we thank you and him for his service. My son is currently serving in Iraq, in the front lines of a most dangerous area. As you know, prayers are our only stronghold. I believe that is true for you now. We get by with the love of friends & family. As a Marine mom, I grieve every loss. May our fondest memories bring you peace. Name: Nancy Brockman Location: Ohio Comments: I remember back when the war first started, seeing the faces in the paper of our brave young men, and women returning home to their grieving parent's, spouses, children. I would just sit and cry, and feel so proud of them, and you. My oldest was in the Corp ten years ago, and it is so true, once a Marine, always a Marine. His youngest brother is now at bootcamp, because to him there just isn't anything he wants to be more, and do more, than become a United States Marine. I pray for you, I pray for our troops, I pray for the new guys coming in, and gals. May God's peace go before you always. God Bless Semper Fi Nancy Brockman Name: kathy hancock (nance-terpening) Location: hartford,il Comments: hey chris, it's kathy. you wouldn't believe how big charles and daniel are now, and the girls also. things have gotten much better for us now. i sure wish you were here, i need someone to talk to most of all the big strong shoulder that i've cried on before. dad and mamma lost the farm they had, they ended up getting a divorce. which we all know that was better with everyone. you wouldn't believe how much alton high has changed, it's the old j.b. johnson building now. they turned the high school into the middle schools. i'm remarried now, to a wonderful guy. he is from missouri and about 16 years older, but them young ones just don't cut it. he was in the vietnam war from 1973 to 1975. you know charles wants to go into the air force and daniel wants to go into the marines. i'm really not for that anymore. i wish there was a way i could talk them out of it. that would be like trying to talk you out of it. welp, i guess i've given you enough of my problems once again, today. i'll talk with you again. sure am missing you and you'r loving laugh. love and miss ya kathy Name: Tony Knott Location: Hobbs, NM Comments: I have always been so thankful for young men like your fine son. We learned today that our son, a marine with the 15th MEU is headed to the Anbar Province as I write this. The fear and concern we feel helps us to, in very small way, understand the fear you must of felt when your hero went to war. I can not in anyway understand the pain you must feel. However, know this, most Americans are so very very thankful for him and his willingness to protect us all. God bless Chris and his wonderful family! Name: H.T Comments: Hey Chris, I know you can here me and are listening to every word. I miss you, but I know you are there looking down on us! It has been hard with out you around, especially for aunt Lynn. I know she has her bad days, but I hope she eventually sees that we all love her so much and care for her more than anything. College has been fun! I wish I was closer to home so I could be with the family more, but thats ok I see them whenever I can. I know I will see you again one day. Before I do anything I think I cant possibly do I think about you and what you went through just to become a marine. You are a true hero and will never be forgotten. I love you and miss you man and I know I will get a chance to talk to you again one day! P.S. Drew is tearing up the soccer field, you would be so proud! that kid really has a future ahead of him.Look over him for me please?! Name: Marine Mom Wendy Location: Alabama Comments: I am so sorry for the loss of your son. He is always in our hearts. He is an American Hero. I am praying for your family! God Bless Our Marines! Name: Beth Location: Kentucky Comments: I just wanted to say that you created a wonderful tribute to your son. I pray for all of our Soldiers out there and I pay great respect to the Fallen Marines. My prayers go with you and your family. I know it's been 2 years since his death but the pain will probably never go away. God Bless Our Troops! God Bless and Semper Fi! Name: Barbara Morris Location: Cupertino, California Comments: Lynn and family--may God bless you and comfort you. When my son wanted to join the Marines, I never understood the brotherhood. In a very small way, I do now. I'm clumsy at praying, at speaking, at writing...but I remember Chris and all of his brothers, in any branch of the service, in my prayers. Thank you for being brave, for continuing to go on, day after day, in the left-over life until you see Chris again. May God give you joy and comfort. I believe that Chris is again with his brothers--and is waiting for you there. We will ALL of us be together again, one day. Name: Clancy K. McDonald Location: Washington D.C. Comments: Dear Family, May God easy your pain.Your nation thanks you for your sacifice. Your son is a true hero and patriot. God bless you, Clancy K. McDonald DOJ/FBI Name: MK Berg Location: Stow, OH Comments: What a beautiful tribute to a beautiful son. He will always be a hero. I know it has been over two years, but I am sure he is still greatly missed by all. Our son is currently finishing his first tour in Iraq. I cannot imagine the pain that you have all gone through. All of our fallen and their families will be in our prayers. Thank you---Semper Fi Name: Maryanne Coronna Location: St. Paul, MN Comments: Thank you for sharing your son. Truly, no greater love is there than to give your life for another. And because of your loss, our freedom is strengthened. I will thank Christopher, personally, when we meet on the other side. God bless you and yours. My son is a Lt. who's just been deployed to Iraq. Name: jeri wilson Location: illinois Comments: lynn, i just noticed you passed the two year mark of chris' death. although i'm sure its still not any easier today, i just want you to know what a remarkable job you have done trying to help other mothers get through this same pain. i'm sure he would be proud of you. god bless you and your family Name: Kelsy Location: chicopee mass Comments: hey uncle chris i just wanted to say how proud i am of you, and that i am so happy you lived your dream and showed your country how much you care. i just wanted to say i love and miss you so much and that everything is ok down here and can't wait to see you again well good bye for now love always, kelsy Name: Laura Location: Lansing, IL Comments: Beautiful Boy-- He is not lost, he has just gone before us. He is with my son guarding those streets in heaven. They took the road less travelled, didn't they? I will never forget what he has meant to us all--a true American. Mother of LCPL Phil Martini KIA Kharma, Iraq 4/08/2006 Name: Pam McGowen Location: Florissant Comments: Lynn, It has been my honor to be able to get to know you. During the St. Patricks parade and at the funeral of Cpl. Shawn Laswell. Your Christopher will never be forgotten because he lives in your heart, and you will always keep him in the light. As a mother of a Marine their is nothing greater than telling people "MY SON IS A UNITED STATES MARINE." Love to you and your family. Name: Carol Biggerstaff Location: Fenton, MO Comments: All Gave Some...Some Gave All...Never Forgotten Chris and his fellow brothers & sisters will never forgotten for who they were and their sacrifices. The world was blessed to have them and sad they are no longer with us, but their memories will live on through their friends and families. May those memories never die but be cherished by you meet. Name: Diane Location: San Antonio, Texas Comments: Beautiful! Simply Beautiful! I feel like I know him through that wonderful memorial. God Bless You. Name: Barbara Gemmell Location: Roswell, GA Comments: I was very touched by the video and feel I've met Chris, such that I too feel the loss. I appreciate his service to our country and along with the rest of the heroes I will always remember him. Semper Fi and God bless. Proud Mom of LCpl David - OIF/OEF Name: Patricia Perkins-Kard Location: Bishop CA Comments: In time, there will come a day when the tears of sorrow will softly flow into sighs of remembrance. Your heart will begin to heal itself. Grieving will be interrupted by episodes of joy; and you will hear the whisper of hope. There will come a day when you will welcome the pangs of remembrance as a sun shower of the soul; a turning of the tide; the promise of peace. There will come a day when you will risk loving, go on believing, and treasure the remembering. -------------------- Chris was a very good and brave man. There are not enough words to express what he has meant to those he served with. You have much to be proud of. We pray that our Savior – in whose presence he now rests – will comfort you and ease the pain of this loss. Your son was a US Marine and part of our family, his loss affects us all. Please know that I have you and your family in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. Pat - Proud Mom of three boys 1 in college, 1 US Marine and a 13 yr old. PGR Ride Captain for Inyo and Mono Counties in CA Proud member of Bishop CA Moms Club, Marineparents.com and Marinecomfortquilts.us Name: Leonard Wahl Location: Spring, Texas Comments: Amazing trbute to your son. My heart and prays are with Christopher and your family. Want you to know. That I appreciate his service to our country. More so for his brotherhood to our son. Sadly, both had not known one another. Soldiers are extremely of his branch of service. Then in war, branches of service unite. To protect one another at all time's. Christopher has not died in vain. He is an AMERICAN HERO! An truely, someone very special to all that knew him. Christopher and all our soldiers serving along side our son. Was a comfort never to worry. Sadly, we lost our son US Army. Sgt. Gregory L. Wahl KIA Balad, Iraq 05-03-04. Christopher will never ever be forgotten. After two years I realize the heartache no different then the day of the news. Yet, I known he is always in my heart as CHRISTopher is in the hearts of his family. GOD BLESS! Name: Kim Stahlhut Location: Houston, Texas Comments: To the Family of Christopher Belchik..... It is with great pride that I wear the hero bracelet that I received from Herobracelets.org. It bears the name of your son. And now after seeing the tribute to him and learning about him, it makes me even more proud. I am grateful to Christopher for his sacrifice to our country and I am honored to wear this bracelet. I wear it with pride every day and night. God Bless Christopher and God Bless you all. Kim Name: Patricia Perkins - Kard Location: Bishop, CA Comments: To the parents and family of Cpl Christopher Belchik: I can only imagine what you and your family have gone through since being notified of the death of Christopher. As you grieve for Christopher I want you to know that you are not alone. Hearts of parents all over are grieving with you. You are living the nightmare of every parent who has a child serving his country. I know this time is a difficult one in which no words can express how you feel, just as no words can express how much I feel for you and your family. But know that God above carried your son home and said, "an awesome job well done." The path your son chose to follow has not ended. But he now walks in a different place. Not one of war and heartache but one of happiness and eternal peace. His life will continue to touch your family, his marine family and anyone who had the privilege of knowing him. His life reflected his love for his family, his country, his Marine brothers and his compassion for those who do not know the meaning of freedom. His life is an inspiration and should be an example that we all follow and honor. Christopher has not left you, just moved on. I wish that I could ease your pain and sadness, but it will be a long, slow and painful climb. Pain this deep will never go entirely away, but I pray that as each day that passes the hurt becomes a little less. And the memories of a lifetime will sustain you. The memories are your keepsake that can never be taken away. God has Christopher in his keeping, but you have him forever in your thoughts and hearts. I hope that this letter will help to continue the healing process, so that your memories of Christopher will shine through the sadness. I will continue to pray for you and your family. Patricia Perkins – Kard Proud mother of a US Marine "Although it's difficult today to see beyond the sorrow, may looking back in memory help comfort you tomorrow." " He is like the wind. You can not see him...but you will always feel him" Name: Linda S. Bell Location: Lafayette, IN Comments: I am so sorry for your loss. Christopher is truly a hero. I will not forget him. I have a son in the Marines and has been stationed in OKINAWA for the past 21 months. While I have missed him I have been grateful that he has not been in combat to date. He will be deployed to Iraq in October of 06. Your family will be in my thoughts and prayers. Someday those of Iraq will have the same freedom that we in America have because of your son as he defended our freedom. I thank him from the bottom of my heart. Linda S. Bell Name: George RUMBELOW Location: AUSTRALIA Comments: My deepest sympathy in your loss. I spent ten years in the Australian Army, and have been a Police Officer for 5. In that time I worked with USMC on several occasions and had the utmost respect for every one I met. As a soldier I share your loss, even though I did not know your son. You are in my prayers as is Chris. I wish you all the best and thank Chris for his sacrifice, as I thank you for yours. No-one is truly gone if they remain in your heart. Hold onto Chris in your heart and he will be alive forever. God bless. Name: Nathan MCAULIFFE Location: South Australia Comments: Dear Mr and Mrs BELCHIK, It was with great sadness that watched the main tribute to your son Christopher. I was directed to the tribute by a retired Marine whilst on the Real Police forums. All i can say is congratulations on having raised such an awesome son. I am dissapointed that i never got the opportunity to meet a true American Hero who gave the ultimate sacrifice to make the world, not just America a safer place for people to live in. My thoughts are with you on the approaching 2 year anniversary since you lost your beloved son. May gods strength be with you and comfort you in this difficult time. Take care. R.I.P Christopher BELCHIK Semper Fi Name: Marine Corps League Detachment 184 Location: Saint Louis, Missouri Comments: We've set a link to Chris' tribute page. Remember, you are still Marine family! Semper Fidelis! Name: Mark McCool Location: Nashotah, WI Comments: Dear Lynn, Jim, Brian, and all the family, Thank you for sharing just a little about Chris with us here. Darrell & Mark have done such a wonderful job of bringing this about with their artful skills, creativity, and their genuine care. What a fitting tribute to a man to whom we all owe so much. Were we all as Chris and his great family, our nation's worries would be few indeed. Name: Janelle Watts Location: Crownsville, MD Comments: Both very touching tributes to Chris. Thanks for sharing them with us. Janelle Name: Nicole Martin Location: St. Louis, MO Comments: What a beautiful tribute. Thank you so much for sharing a part of your son's life with us. Peace to you and yours, Nicole A Soldiers Wish List Volunteer Name: Barbara Hayes Location: Alton, Il. Comments: Chris was a fine young man who took on the job of protecting all of us. My heart weeps for the family and friends. Lynn, let your heart and body tell you how to grieve. I know your pain. Your friend Barb Name: judy Location: Marine Moms Online Comments: thank you for sharing Chris with us (((((((((((((youse)))))))))))))) sometimes just may you find blessings amid your tears thank you Chris judy Name: Lydia Douglas Location: St Louis, MO Comments: Dear mother of Chris, I will keep you in my prayers, that the Lord will give you renewed strength each and everyday. My husband and I pray each and every day for our men and women. My church is praying for them as well. My youngest son is over there. Be Blessed, Lydia Douglas Name: The Stones Location: Mascoutah, Illinois Comments: We have been sent this magnificent memorial by Julieann at A Soldier's Wishlist. Just know you are not alone when you cry your tears and hold your head high in honor of your wonderful son. We too have a son in the Armed Services and worry daily for the safety of all of our troops worldwide. Again, our prayers and gratitude go out to you and your family. Brian, Corinne, Patrick and Meagan Stone USAF Retired Mascoutah, IL Name: Gregory L West USN Retired Location: Muskogee, Ok Comments: Dear Belchik Family, I am a 100% Totally & Permanently Disabled American Veteran. I have seen war and have felt the effects, personally. I want to tell you how very deeply I appreciate Chris' dedication to our country, his family and to me. My gratitude for his willingness to become a United States Marine and knowingly put himself in harms way for the sake of others, can not be appropriately expressed. I hurt for your loss, I hurt for our Marine Corps and Chris' brothers in arms. I also am filled with pride knowing that Chris cared enough for people he never met, to take on the burden of war for our liberty and that of others. Rest assured that Chris is seated with our Lord for he fought the good fight. Nothing prepares you for what you are now going through. I will pray for all of you. May God bless you all and walk with you as you struggle with this difficult point in your lives. My Deepest Gratitude & Respect, HAND SALUTE GMGMCPO West USN (Ret) Name: Julieann Najar Location: St. Louis,Mo. Comments: I am the founder of A SOLDIERS WISH LIST and I am so touched by the tribute you did for your son. No one would know such a loss unless you have gone though it, my heart and prayers go out to you and your family. Julieann Name: Patsy Jackson Location: Spanish Lake, MO Comments: My heart goes out to you on the loss of your son, I cannot even imagine, your son is a real hero and I hope our country never forgets what our soldiers and their families have sacrificed. I am a volunteer with the soldierswishlist and the ladies at Dr. Shaw's Office gave me the e-mail address. They said they had given you a calendar. If you are nearby, we would love to have you join our group. We will be having a packing party this Saturday morning starting at 9:00 am at Julianne Najar's home on Larimore. It means so much to our troops to receive the packages. You can go to www.asoldierswishlist.org to find out more about us. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers. Name: DONNA (ELLIOTT) KAISER Location: WENTZVILLE,MO Comments: LYNN & FAMILY WHAT A BEAUTIFUL TRIBUTE. YOUR SON GAVE THE GREATEST SACRIFICE OF ALL FOR US, HIS LIFE. I KNOW THERE ARE NO WORDS ANYONE CAN SAY TO EASY YOUR LOSS BUT KNOW THAT GOD IS WITH YOU ALWAYS. CHRIS IS WITH OUR HEAVENLY FATHER AND SAFE FROM ANY OTHER HARM. MY PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU. DONNA Name: Sandra Stewart Location: Bogalusa, La. Comments: How handsome and brave was your Beloved. He personifies all that every young man should strive to be. I am familiar with the scenes in your touching video as I saw almost every scene myself during the life and death of my Beloved Marine Cpl. David "Bear" Stewart, KIA 8/3/05, just 7 days before his 25th birthday. Thank You for the gift of your son, husband, brother. There is no greater sacrifice. Sandra Stewart, Bear's Mama Name: Brittany Manley Location: E.Alton IL.(rosewood heights) Comments: Christopher was once my uncle, we had some awsome times together weither it was playing outside or punching his bag, we always had a great time. he was an awsome person and i'm so honored to have known him. I pray for you all every night! I LOVE YOU ALL! Love always Brittany Manley Name: Dawn Golby Location: Johnstown Pa Comments: Lynn what a wonderful tribute to your son Christopher. Watching this video made it seem like I was right there. Please accept our deepest condolences in the passing of your HERO and mine Christopher who on Aug 22, 04 was redeployed to Heaven. (((((Lynn&Christopher)))))) Name: Pat Location: Bishop, CA Comments: I am also the proud parent of a US Marine who is currently stationed in Iraq. I never met your family or your son, but after watching your tribute - feel a overwhelming sense of loss, along with gratitude. Your family paid the ultimate sacrifice for our freedom. May God be with your family. What a wonderful tribute to your son. Name: Nancy Morin Location: New Jersey Comments: Thank you for sharing this beautiful testament of an American born and bred doing what must be done to keep all safe. My son is a Marine serving in Iraq. As long as there are Marines your son will never be forgotten. He is a true hero. God Bless you and your family Nancy Name: 1stSgt Brent Graham Location: Iraq Comments: Just a quick note to let you know I was thinking of all of you today, on this 230th Birthday of our Corps. During our ceremony this morning, I couldn't help but be reminded of Chris and his sacrifices for this great Nation of ours. My thoughts and prayers continue to be with you and your family. Semper Fidelis, 1stSgt Brent Graham Name: Susan Fangman Location: Texas Comments: Hello Christopher's family. I was looking for info on support groups for a friend at work who just lost her son (a Marine) three weeks ago when I found your tribute. My heart goes out to you... I lost my only sibling, my brother when he was eighteen, and my only son just went to Marine boot camp three weeks ago and that's scary. I pray for peace and healing for you all. Your son is a Hero and I will always remember this tribute. God bless you, Susan Name: Sgt. Trent, David S Location: Camp Geiger SOI East Comments: This is a very nice tribute to the man that saved so many lives and made many of us smile daily while over in the big sand box. He will always be in all of our hearts forever. RIP buddy. Name: Diane S. Location: Long Island, NY Comments: To all those who knew and loved Cpl Chris: My deepest and sincerest condolences on your tragic loss. I am a Marine Mom with a son currently serving in Iraq. The feelings of fear and the overwhelming pride I feel all at the same time is so very hard to put into words. So is the sadness I felt when watching your beautiful son's life in pictures.I pray that those memories will help you through your grief. Your tribute was beautiful and I'm sure Chris is looking down from heaven and feeling so honored. God bless all of you. Name: MaryEllen Location: New York Comments: I would like to express my sincerest condolances to Chris Family and friends. I did not know Chris but I am a Marine Mom and do understand the sacrifice we all make - some make the ultimate sacrifice- They are our true hero's. May you find comfort in your memories of all you shared together.You've lost someone very special. Holding you up in Prayer, MaryEllen Name: Charline Kamp Location: Indianapolis, Indiana Comments: What a wonderful tribute to your son. He must have made you very proud. God bless you all. Name: Mary and Chuck H. Location: Plano, TX Comments: Our son, LCPL Ryan, was also in Iraq during August 2004, and will soon depart for another tour of duty there. Our family prays for each of you to feel the warmth of God's loving arms, and give you His peace. Thank you, Chris, for making the ultimate sacrifice. Gone, but NEVER forgotten...We will see you again soon. Semper Fi! Name: Cpl Jason W. Godios Location: Camp Fallujah, Iraq Comments: Words cannot convey my sorrow for the loss of Chris. He was my Squad Leader last year and I his 1st Team Leader. Not a day goes by that I don't think of that fateful night (he was in the humvee infront of me). The last words he said to me was, "Load up in the humvees so I can call Mary!". Everyday, He talked about Mary. His leadership got me by my tour of duty. Now as the 3rd Squad Leader of 2nd Platoon Easy Company 2/2, I find myself at the same locations I was at last year with Chris. I remember the leadership he gave me to get by and I am passing it on to the marines under me and helping them get by. I never will forget what leadership and class Chris enstilled in me, I'm grateful I met him and I'm proud to say I served with him. Chris is a true hero and will never be forgotten with me. Someday when I'm old and grey I will tell my grandchildren of my Squad Leader Chris Belchik who protected me and brought me back home. Name: Bill Kramer Location: American Canyon, California Comments: The tribute was very well done. I have been tossing around the idea of making one for my Nephew Lcpl Phillip West, who was KIA in Iraq Last November in Fallujah as a member of the 3/1 Marines. I got this link from marineparnets.com. i am there under the name MarineUncle and my wife is ProundMarineAunt. Agai a very nice job. He will always be remebered and in our hearts Daily. When you get the time I would love to know what program you used for th show. it was wonderfully done. BILL KRAMER Name: Sean Stuckey, SK1, USCG (Coastie) Location: NCWG-1 San Diego, Ca Comments: All, Sometimes God throws us a curve. And, it isn't easy trying to bang it out of the park but we gotta do the best we can. We gotta keep battling through. I'm sorry you've lost Chris - this a big curve ball no doubt. I can't offer you up anything that hasn't already been said. I can't do a damn thing to ease your pain. But believe me, if I could I would. My family has been lucky in all of this. I'm dropped in and plucked out so fast it's like I was never there. Tucked in behind an ECP packed with grunts and enough ammo/weapons to take down a small country - that's how I spend my time in country. Ya, my folks have been blessed. Chris was a warrior for sure, there can be no doubts. He stood up, held up his right hand and spoke the oath. The oath many of us still believe in. The oath that begins the transformation. The oath that is our ticket to ride on that journey into the Brotherhood that is the United States Armed Forces. Believe me, it is a Brotherhood and when one falls we all feel the pain. When you cry know that we're alongside you. That's what we do in the military, we back each other up. Thick or thin. Good times and bad. We have to look out for one another because, at times, each other is all we have. When Chris enlisted the recruiter should have handed you a set of papers as well because you too joined the military. Yes, when a Family enlists the entire Family enlists right along side. This is where the term, "Military Family" comes from. But don't worry, your extended Family is MASSIVE in numbers and is here (or there) for you. My first trip forward I saw a lot of beat up Marines. To me they were kids but at the same time they were warriors. These kids had that look in their eyes, the look of seeing beyond. It was an eye opener to say the least. At no point did I ever fear for them or worry about them. "They're Marines" I would say to myself. Yup, they were Marines alright. The greatest fighting machine ever assembled. Our modern day knights of the round table and at the same time they're our Sons, Daughters, Brothers, Sisters, Fathers and Mothers. Hey, I have a Marine in my Family....I get it. I know what it is to be a Devil Dawg - I saw it first hand and cheered him on every step of the way. The world still needs warriors and it just so happens that ours wear the uniform of the United States Marines. So, here's to Chris the Marine. Here's to Chris, the warrior. Here's to Chris, my Brother in Arms. And, here's to Chris....your Son. Semper Fi/Semper Paratus, Sean Stuckey, SK1, USCG ("Coastie") Naval Coastal Warfare Group-1 Name: Rosie Escamilla Location: California Comments: What a beautiful way to honor your son! The tribute is very touching. He was one of America's finest and he gave his best: his life! Thank you for sharing Chris with us - we will never forget!!! Semper Fidelis Name: Elaine (Annette's Aunt) Location: Chicago Comments: Lynn and family, What a tribute! Words cannot express what I felt while watching it. My heart goes out to you and your family and my prayers are with you. I never met Chris, but, at the same time will never forget him. Thank you for sharing this. Name: doug Location: Farmington Hills, Mi Comments: Thank you for your son's courage and the sacrifice he made for me and my family! doug brzak Name: Laura James Location: Colonial Heights,VA Comments: My son(Chris) served with Cpl.Belchik in Iraq. What a terrible loss. Our hearts go out to you and your family. Our son is serving his 2nd tour currently. Name: Janice G Location: Michigan Comments: Dear Fellow Marine Corp Family: Unfortunately, I was unable to view the tribute to your son because of the age of my computer. Regardless, I did not have to see it to know that he was, and is, very special to you and that your hearts ache beyond words. I will never get used to comprising letters or emails of condolence. It's hard to know what to write because you NEVER want to say something that will upset the bereaved family. Just know this.... while we are not acquainted, I will pray for your family because of the sacrifice that you have had to make. One thing is for sure, your son will not be forgotten by your fellow marine corp family. God bless you Jan G Name: Holly McBroom Location: Clyde,Oh Comments: Dear Belchik Family, I am Holly McBroom, LCPL Michael McBroom's sister. I just wanted to say that we are still thinking about you, and will always remember Cpl Belchik. My brother looked up to him so much, and talked of him very often. He really took it hard. This is a wonderful wonderful tribute and I will pass it on to the entire family to watch, including Michael. CPL Belchik will never be forgotten. Semper Fi, Holly McBroom Name: DeEtte Wood Location: Kirkland, WA Comments: What a beautiful tribute. Thanks for sharing. Name: Joe and Marlana Location: Pleasant Valley, NY Comments: Dear family, In your loss we pray that you find strength to continue to put your energy to use to encourage others who still serve or whose family members do, as you have in the tribute. We know you are proud of your strong, brave son a hero to all of us who understand that freedom is costly and worth protecting. May God Bless you all with Peace, Joe and Marlana Name: Jewel Aston Location: Houston, Texas Comments: Lynn and family, What a beautiful tribute to Chris. So long as we live, they too shall live, for they are now a part of us as we remember them. Jewela Name: Mark Sutter Location: St. Louis, MO Comments: What a great tribute to Chris. I must say, I welled up pretty badly through the first half. Looking at the pictures made it seem like all this happened only yesterday. I especially liked the presentation once it got to the part when Louis Armstrong started singing "What a Wonderful World." Name: George Lenker Location: Massachusetts Comments: Too touching for words. God bless... Name: Spc. Jason Riedisser Location: Iraq Comments: It was truely a great video for an American Hero like Chris. Thank you for sharing Chris with me. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Name: Tina Kramer Location: American Canyon, CA Comments: I love your tribute to Christopher. You did an awesome job. I am so sorry for you loss. My nephew was KIA 11/19/04 in the battle for fallujah. He was 19 years old. I would just like to tell you how sorry I am for your loss. And the sign at the end of the tribute is so true. GONE BUT NEVER FORGOTTEN. Best of luck to you and your family. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Bill and Tina Kramer Name: Cinda Comments: What a beautiful tribute to a wonderful young man. Name: Shellie Starr Location: Washington State Comments: Wonderful tribute. Truly sorry for the loss of your precious loved one. We need to hold our freedom in the highest regard as our son's blood has been shed for it. Thank you for sharing Chris with us. Name: R. Linn Location: Virginia Comments: Lynn and family, A beautiful tribute to a wonderful man. Though you lost Chris and I lost Karl, we will love and honor them for the rest of our days. Semper Fidelis. -USMCPOP Name: Linda Hamlett Location: Georgetown, TX Comments: I can only extend my deepest sympathy to all of you. I wish you peace and hope that the love that shines so strongly in your tribute will help you heal. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Linda Hamlett PMM - PFC Timothy Feagin Name: Sue & Mark Bisnette Location: Leland, NC Comments: To Chris' family: We have never seen such a wonderful memorial! You should always be so very proud of your beautiful and brave son and brother. We all appreciate his ultimate sacrifice more than you'll ever know.... I'm still crying as I write this. Our love and prayers are with you always. Love, Sue & Mark P.S. Still miss ya Julie! Name: Toni Harrison Location: Alton,IL Comments: I didn't even make it through the first photo before I broke down. What a wonderful tribute to Chris and his family. I know it is a very difficult time but I hope the sadness in everyones heart is being filled with pride and wonderful memories of Chris and the happiness he brought to so many. I really miss how happy and silly Chris and my sister, Mary were. In my heart I know Chris knows how much he is missed and loved. Toni Name: Kem Ervin Location: Wichita Falls, TX Comments: Lynn and Jim, you are always in my thoughts and Prayers. I am not good with words at all but it is all here in my heart. Chris is our Hero. He gave his life so that we and ours can be free. Thank you for sharing Chris with us through this page. Prayers for you both and the rest of Chris's loved one's and family and friends. Kem Name: Karen Humber Location: Gilroy, CA Comments: Thank you so much for the honor of having Chris come into my home for a few minutes. The tribute is not only a tribute to Chris, but a tribute to you and your family, his beautiful wife, and those still serving their country. A Proud Marine Mom Comments: Lynn, You did a wonderful job on the tribute. My prayers are with you and the family. Cathy Name: Kathie D. Location: Wood River, Illinois Comments: While I never had the opportunity to know Chris, I feel as if I did thru the stories told to me by his aunt Sharon. The love your entire family feels for each other is what brings you all together as you share your loss, it is also what will help you all get thru. I know that Chris is walking and joking with God as they walk the streets of heaven and it is Chris that shows he is okay, in the many events that are otherwise 'unexplained' in every day life, like a cup of iced tea in a car on a hot day or somrthing as simple as a blue butterfly. My wish for you is that the pain that has visited your hearts for the last year soon be replaced with smiles from the memories that live in your soul. Kathie D. |